This one is so hard to keep in mind, but so important. It is not saying not to let people know when things are bothering you, but that you cannot force another to change. If you want a change, make a change in YOUR life.
This quote is from Step #1 in the Unscribbling process “Become Aware”
in Unscribbling: the art of problem solving and fulfilling your desires
unscribbling.com 
